If you’re wondering what zodiac sign suits you best; what to do and expect at your first meeting, here are some broad-stroke hints and ideas. Remember, they are based on the Sun sign of your potential partner, and though they may give you the most apparent aspects of their personality traits and desires, check out their rising sign, also known as the ascendant. This will reveal important clues to what’s perhaps hidden, beneath the surface of how they appear.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
If you want to date an intrepid Aries, be bold. Sure, they’re impulsive and spontaneous, but here’s a secret – they like it best when you take charge. Entice them with a high-stakes adventure, like skydiving, or because they like to be the first, take them to a premiere. Then sit back and let them chase. They love the thrill of conquering someone new.
Taurus (April. 20 – May 20)
Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty and luxury, which means they like the finer things in life. A classy exhibit, followed by a four star restaurant, with a fine wine list – will get you in their good graces. But that’s just a start. Remember they’re looking for a true love partner, not an occasional date. Meaning you’ll need to be emotional available. If you’re the dependable type who texts daily, you’ll end up with a very sensual mate.
Gemini (May 21 – June 21)
Geminis are so versatile and adaptable – you can take them anywhere and end up having a good time. They like to be in the swirl of things, so take them to a fabulous party or your favorite place for people watching. Then get ready to wind down with quality alone time. They are brainy and quick-witted conversationalists who love to discuss and analyze things. You’ll have to be up to date with current events, primed to listen and ready to go along with their quick changing natures.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
Cancers are known as warm and affectionate. But like their zodiac symbol, the crab, they become self-protective or even snappy when they don’t feel safe. Ruled by water, they relax best in nature or familiar settings. Inside every Cancer is a passionate foodie, so coax them with a farm-to-table restaurant, or a culinary class. For extra points, entertain them at home – preferably theirs, and talk about family or how psyched you are to start one.
Leo (July 23 – Aug 22)
Leo is a passionate sign, ruled by the Sun, that seeks warmth and personal attention. Still, they’re happy to share mutual admiration with someone they feel proud of. Known as the lovers of the zodiac, they make great dates and like to live with gusto. Your ideal first date with a Leo should be a celebration, no matter what you do. They like to shine and be noticed, so set the stage by taking them to a place where they can rock the red carpet. Snag VIP tickets to an opening, then follow up with champagne toasts. Don’t forget to double-check yourself in the mirror, and be free with the compliments.
Virgo (Aug 23 – Sep 22)
Virgo, sign of Mother Earth, and ruled by quicksilver Mercury, likes things au natural and smart. While they’re eco friendly and wellness buffs, they also have a reputation for being workaholics and worriers. So your first step will be to find a place to calm them down and get them out of their head. Seduce them with simplicity and sincerity. Meet-up at the gym, juice bar or take them for a leisurely stroll in a quiet piece of nature. Virgo isn’t looking for the exotic; they’re more about keeping it real. Let them take their time with you, and don’t pry them with questions. They tend to be somewhat private, mates. So give them the space they need.
Libra (Sep 23 – Oct 22)
Libra, ruled by Venus, is charming and classy, so make sure you’re on your best manners and well groomed. They enjoy elegant settings with soft ambience that allows for engaging conversation. Harmony in place and people is their motto. Plan on a quiet wine bar or garden cafe. Then take a stroll together. They love attracting attention from others. This works best if you make a good-looking couple. If your dating turns serious, don’t be surprised if they want to give your wardrobe a makeover – just to bring out your best, of course. At least pretend to be amenable.
Scorpio (Oct 23 – Nov 21)
Scorpio, ruled by Pluto, represented by the Greek god Hades, is an intense and powerful sign. They aren’t usually interested in casual dating. They have a reputation of being the sexiest of lovers, once you get past the barriers. Although they can be fiercely loyal to people they love, winning their trust can be challenging. You’ll need a safe place and the time to get them to open up to you. Take a long walk on the beach with this water sign, or book the darkest corner table at a cozy restaurant, preferably one where you are on first name terms with the owners. Then get ready for a very intimate conversation about what you’ve gone through, how to fix it and where you’re headed. This one wants to get to the bottom of your psyche. But beware of betraying their secrets if you’re lucky enough to learn them: the sting can be fatal.
Sagittarius (Nov 22 – Dec 21)
Sagittarius, ruled by Jupiter, is an energetic and often restless sign that loves adventure, endless variety and the great outdoors. They are intellectually curious and like to stretch their life-experience. Often interested in philosophy and spirituality, they also love travel to exotic places. If you can’t take them to a new country or city on a first date, appeal to their physical nature. Swap the fancy restaurant for fresh air and sunshine. This sports fan likes hiking, biking, sailing and big game arenas. They might also well be tempted by the latest trend in martial arts. Don’t forget – the true Sag requires plenty of freedom and space. Known as the zodiac archer, they tend to keep their eyes on the prize, so give them something to look forward to at the end of the evening.
Capricorn (Dec 22 – Jan 19)
If you’re dating a Capricorn, you better have something impressive to offer. Ruled by serious Saturn, they’re a no-nonsense type and won’t waste their time on just anyone. They will already have a well-established structure in their lives. They enjoy formal and traditional settings, like museums and historical estates. This one really likes to plan and grow, so a botanical garden with a stop at a teahouse, would make a great first date. (Just make sure you don’t change the date on them without plenty of notice and a very good reason.) If you don’t already have bucks in your bank account, you’ll have to give them a reason to believe in you. Caps are interested in forging serious life partnerships and if this is what you seek, they will be there for you – for better or worse.
Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18)
Aquarians, ruled by Uranus, the planet of change and freedom are inventive and often unpredictable. They love to collect interesting people. If you want to be a part of their life, you’ll need to be open minded and prepared to get along with their friends. A good first date might be to a glitzy philanthropic fundraiser. It helps if you have mutual interests or are passionate about a cause. If you’re on the cutting edge of technology or a start-up, all the better! Don’t mistake their electric nature for cold-heartedness. Away from the madding crowd, if you show that you’re worthy, they’ll give you a peak at their heart of gold.
Pisces (Feb 19 – Mar 20)
Pisces, ruled by idealist Neptune, is a dreamer that seeks inspiration. They enjoy music, soft surroundings and being near water. Load up your iTunes, then whisk them off for an evening of stargazing, preferably near a waterfall. Just remember, this one was born psychic and will intuitively know more about you on a first date, than you might ever imagine. So don’t try to fool them, be honest from the start.